Hellooo people…as promised…here comes my next itch :p you could call it so… real apt right? Starting off, am so overwhelmed with such a tremendous response for my last one! It was amazing to be acquainted with such mixed bag of emotions. And as assured…this article would be purely your voice of words…as it goes…

For all my folks who wanted the boy’s perception…here it comes...the boy was in a spot fixed situation..yes…he was so confused between his family and his ever-loved girlfriend..that he rather chose to stay mum…and ignore both of them..instead running for any hasty decisions….seems perfect right??? Well then let me ask you something…only because the girl there was pretty convincing….can I ask why couldn’t he share his very feelings with her? Why couldn’t he try to find a solution together? Why couldn’t he stay by her…while she did….for all the long time?

Why stay so confused?

Why stay so confused?

What really happened?? I know you guys are going snoopy…and hell yes..it gives so lot of satisfaction :p
So when the boy proposed her in all way cinematic, her answer was very simple… “Oh dear, I love you too…trust me I’ve butterflies in my stomach…but there is this one concern of mine…my parents’ aren’t really fine with this right now….what do I do :(? “ Classic right?? And…And..the parents did act very stern on their decision… and what happened next? The girl did try taking no notice of him….did try to run away from situations….and then came in the big cry of his questions….”Why on earth can’t you at least stay with me? Have you no idea how worse it is to stay away from you? Don’t you get this simple thing that it’s possible only if we try…and not just me…How long can you leave me waiting here, with no clue of what’s gonna happen next????”

loneliness has got no gender bias..right?

loneliness has got no gender bias..right?

And the reply was as simple as it could be…she smiled and said…“And how couldn’t you figure out all this earlier? That it could work out with us and not me alone?” Wasn’t this enough? It was a de-trop to show what she actually wanted!
What girls want isn’t the pampering…not the love hugs…not the sweet notes…maybe that’s just an extra claim 😛 ….but what they want is you to stay with them when they need you…to listen…when it’s needed…to have a real thought towards her!

guess the quote says it all..

guess the quote says it all…

And yes…there was a happy ending….they did get married..but only this time…they were empethetic..!
Hence my sure shot bottom line will be….the story could be the same for boys standing in the girl’s shoes…but since this one’s for all the beautiful chicks out there….I would say… that a wise man could accept his lady with every shade she possesses…and yes this follows the newtons 3rd law :p

Being empathetic is what matters more!

Being empathetic is what matters more!

Love isn’t the last straw to know a person..right? And as you guys say…especially women! So, this calls for my second itch 😛
There lived this Mr and Mrs happy couple across my street. Happy in the sense perfect? You could say so :p And why am I trying to take all such ideal cases?? Because that’s the only way I can make you guys wait for my next :p Fine so yes, those people were married for 20 years for now and were noteworthy for not actually getting into a single cold war amongst themselves. Well, there was this friend of mine who went in to invite them to her wedding next…and we were fortunate enough to have this conversation with the Mrs. All she told my friend was not to stay silent from here on to eternity…but to actually speak up for herself!

Seriously that happy??

Seriously that happy??

Well, this wasn’t what we expected…she was supposed to tell her that she was happy for her right then. On doing best with my intrusive skills :P, this was what she told us… Your uncle is a very humble man with lots of ethics and extreme love for his family…but in this journey I wasn’t that fortunate enough to gain the same vital stand as their family, but it was me who had to move on…grin and bear every kind of shit his so called family members do to us, only because he could never figure out the little things that effect you huge! On the contrary, if I spoke up, it would be me dividing his family! I’ve lived a life of dignity, but I would be a happier soul if I could get him to brawl for the same. But yes life should go on…you got to compromise, sustain, ignore, though it is costing your self-respect! Only to maintain harmony!! Right?

What does the lady indeed want?

What does the lady indeed want?

What do you think the lady out there wanted from her Mr.husband? Lots of love and attention for herself?? Or is it something else? What do you guys think she should do next? Stay the same or stand up for herself after years? How and Why?
With the same utopia that you guys would nourish my articles with your support…that’s by your precious comments…shares….likes and what not :p ……..I sign off promising to be back soon with the follow-up….!!!!!!!!